Sunday, November 30, 2008

Review of my speech

**Showtime~ from RSDnation.com**

Ratisse start telling about why he entered the community and its very different from alot of people.. and wich is a good and different way..

Then he talks a bit about limiting beliefs and gives some examples on his own history , and about he fucking girls with no bed HAHAHA..

He tells a bit of something that he do that most of guys doesnt do, go when you find approach invitations.. but without excuses .. no matter if you are with friends or sober..

On text game he gave some cool tips and encourage to have routines, It was never a weak point of mine so I cant opine on that, but the tips were good.. How to game Hungover or Sick .. He told how he developed his text stack.. and shared some of his rules on text

Then he starts talking about priming , that was by far my favorite part, and to me, to most useful and important one.. Its a little cool thing that anyone can add to their game and skyrocket the results.. basically could be something on the lines of "If you guess my name right I will makeout with you" but there is much more he talks about it like 20 minutes.. this alone guys is worth watching the presentation.. in more or less one month after listening I got laid three times.. of course there is more things on my game, but this played huge part, it helps to see if the set is going somewhere.. and later he talks about his delivery on it

And then a bit of state control and being state independent from the girls state and the importance of being unreactive including a report from his experience , worth listening

And some good tips on lmr, some smart way to go its good if you have no experience..

Its all useful things, made for getting results, Im looking to see the 2009 thing.. the best thing its free.. definatelly worth watching guys

5/5

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Review from a pua

**Sent to me by Joseph from the Project Chicago lair**


Review of Pre RedStack Seminar Coaching with El Topo and Ratisse

The week that El Topo did the lair talk with Project Chicago he also did a RedStack seminar that Sunday. The night before the seminar, El Topo took out the seminar attendees to get a feel for where each attendee was, and where they are with their game, and what each person’s strengths and weaknesses were.

We met up for dinner at a restaurant in Wicker Park, and were joined by Ratisse who would help El Topo with coaching that night. Those of you who frequent the RSD boards might be familiar with the name. Ratisse is a bit younger and has more of a higher energy, very playful natural style and is always on. He was a very interesting guy. He peacocks a bit too. He showed up at the restaurant gothed out with eyeliner, double lip piercings, and . . . anyone . . . anyone . . . you guessed it, the quintessential black nails. The guy definitely carries himself with a lot of confident energy and swagger as well.

He sat down and we started talking. For a guy that comes off as so hyper-confident, Ratisse was actually pretty laid back and extremely cool to talk to. Very early on in the conversation he mentioned that he didn’t have a big ego about dealing with people and likes to work with people. That turned out to be true, and he was really good at motivating each of us for the night to come. I think this guy is up and coming in the pickup community and is a name that you will hear a lot about in the coming months and years.

One thing about dinner was that Ratisse helped me refine my strategy for picking up the type of women that I want, as well as work with me on some customized material to help me convey some of the things that I am passionate about. The specific routine started with my main hobby of snowboarding and what that’s like for me, and then used that to build up a conversational theme of stepping outside your boundaries. Then he pointed out how you can use that to start sexually framing a woman pretty early on in the conversation. After that he turned and worked with each of the guy’s around the table. He kind of had this urgency to him, where he wanted to help everyone there. The guy definitely has a gift for coaching and a desire to help people.

Over dinner, El Topo interviewed each of the seminar attendees in depth, collecting detailed information about their lifes and their histories. He took notes, but in retrospect he did most of the seminar from memory. One of the things that makes El Topo such a gifted teacher is that (this sounds cliché as I write it but . . .) He has a natural understanding of people and emotions, and just humanity for lack of a better term. To those that ask how he got good so fast, that is his gift that enabled that. It’s also the main thing that I get from him from a coaching perspective whenever we hang out is that he just exudes that innate understanding of human interaction.

We went out to English. There were six attendees and two coaches. I got 1-1 time with both Ratisse and El Topo. The specific feedback I got from El Topo is that I move around too much in set, and it comes off as being uncomfortable. Also, that I need to drop the attraction vibe and engage earlier to start building rapport, and to take her in and out of different emotions.

Working with Ratisse in field was fun because he just dominates every set that I saw him in. It was timely too though because I am in Sinns coaching program and my assignment for the week was to have more fun and be more playful in set, because I take pickup too seriously to the point of it interfering with my game. Ratisse is so laid back and fun infield that I just dropped all game for a change and went into set after set just having fun. We spotted this really hot blonde in a two set and I had already decided to go in when he spotted her and said go in. It was her birthday and the conversation got sexual pretty quickly. It was about a half and hour set. Lot’s of kino sexual talk. It got a bit too much into comfort towards the end, and I somehow ended up in Day-2 land with a solid phone number, but no SNL, which I think was a possibility at the beginning of the set. Later Ratisse made me text her and push for the late night meet up and even wrote the text for me. Text game is one of his specialties. I got a good reply fast, but still didn’t get the SNL. Odds for SNL drop drastically once you let them out of your site because you have to constantly manage their state. This woman was definitely high quality though, and it was a confidence builder just getting as far as I did.

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

LR- Solo at the stripclub (11/20)

I went out Thursday, Friday and Saturday. Each night I took home a different girl and fucked her. Here’s the first of 3 LR’s.

Thursday- Milwaukee, WI.

After working out I had the urge to go out. My work partner was being lame- wanting to stay at the hotel. I decided to go across the parking lot to this mexican restaurant/bar to see what was going on. Nothing cool going on here- place was dead AND no hot chicks. I talk to the bartender for a second and find out where the nearest strip club is. I get there and it isn’t very packed which is an awesome thing when trying to game strippers.

Grabbed myself water from the bar, plant myself at the stage to watch this blue haired hottie do her thing. When she came over I did my thing, teased her, made her laugh and sent her on her way to work guys for money. After she got off stage I stuck around to watch the next girl work the stage. Rinse and repeat when she comes over and I bounce over to an empty table against the way to wait patiently like a spider on a web. Moments later the blue haired beauty strolls over to talk to me. We chat a little bit then she asks my name. I give it to her and continue the conversation. Eventually she asks me “Don’t you want to know my name.”, I tell her “Sure even though at the moment it doesn’t matter”. She gives me both her stage name and real name.

We continue on about a range of different things and a shot girl comes over. I decline buying a shot. The stripper asks if I drink. I tell her “Yes but I don’t need alcohol to be social. She tells me “I’m buying you a fucking shot!” and I accept because I’m not one to turn down free alcohol. This then turns into a couple more shots. After a bit she has to go back on stage. She asks me not to go anywhere cause she wants to come back to me.

While she’s on stage I start engaging the other strippers that are walking around. She ends up coming back and the conversation remains fun and I get the feeling that she isn’t trying to work me for money, but I continue to keep my distance and rarely touch her. I start talking about sexual things like how kissing is a big turn on for me and that if someone sucks at that the sex would probably suck. She agrees with me. I ask her what her type is when it comes to guys. She asks me to go first and reframe it saying she’s just wants to know if I find her attractive, which she admits to. I tell her that I think she is hot. She tells me she loves my lip rings, my style and thinks I’m sexy. After awhile of us talking she tells me that she wants to make out with me. I acknowledge her statement and continue the conversation. After awhile she tells me again. I do the exact same thing as before.

I tell her that I’m impressed that she’s hanging out with me when she could be working. She tells me she likes being around me and is having fun. She ends up having to go back on stage and other strippers start coming over to me again. Same pattern they enjoy my conversation then leave when the blue haired girl comes over again. After awhile I tell her “I think your cool and would hangout with you later but it wouldn’t work because I go back to Chicago tomorrow”. She tells me that we should hang out next time I’m in town and gives me her number. After awhile she has to go back on stage and while in the middle of her set she motions for me to come up there. She comes over to me, nuzzles her face into my neck and starts licking my ear. I tell her she should try to arouse me like that that’s how naughty things happen. I go back to my table and she comes back over.

More conversation and I end up telling her that it’s a shame that I have to be up early in the morning otherwise I’d think of letting her take me home. She tells me that wouldn’t be so bad because she kinda wants to fuck me, but she has a guest over so that wouldn’t work. Eventually after her being persistent about making out with me I allow her to take me in the back to get a dance. While in the back she tells me she has an idea. Maybe we could fuck in the back of my car. During the dance she starts making out with me. She pulls away, looks me in the eyes and tells me she’s certain about her idea.

After the dance we have a couple more drinks. End up solidifying details a little more. I bounce out of the club about 10 mins before it closes. She had asked me to meet her in the parking lot of Denny’s because she doesn’t want her coworkers to know that she’s going off to fuck some guy. She shows up and I bring her to my hotel room. I bring her in and it wakes my buddy up. He gets to listen to the action as it goes down. 2 blowjob’s and a round of sex.

Friday, October 3, 2008

Monday, September 1, 2008

where I'm at

The way I see it is I have come to a point in my life where it is time to grow. The biggest thing for me now is developing my inner relationship with myself. I've gotten really good at pick but really what is it based on, by whose guide lines am I measure success. I've come so far in good ways and also bad ways since I was younger. One thing that I notice is gone is my innocence. I connected on deeper levels with people when I was around the age of 18-21. I must find that again. My frame needs to change, I must come from a frame of not desiring anything from anyone. It some thing I'm working on. Must push past the vail that hinders you to blindspot, to see past the superficial bullshit. That's truly the only real way to connect with people. To become more focused on intergrating the truth that my own relationship with myself, no matter what, is the most important ting in this world. Embracing your fears and at the same time, you fearlessness. Choosing to embrace the true beauty that is you.

Friday, August 8, 2008

What is it to be an olympian

Yesterday, while I was in walgreens reading a magazine I ran across a great article. I want to share it with you.

What is it to be an olympian. It is to be great, to be inspiring. It requires unwaivering commitment, work beyond limits & an indomitable spirit. Pursuing it undaunted despite the challenges that will invariably occur. You cannot lose when you pursue olympian ideals- in every aspect of your life. If you're man enough to try you can only win.

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

A lesson from Earl

As I sit here typing this up my father's dog is by my side. He kind of inspired me. You can learn alot from man's best friend. When they see you they are extremely happy and excited to see you and it puts a smile on your face. They love you unconditionally and without question. They ask for nothing but your affection and love. Imagine if you were to treat everyone like that. Just bringing positive vibes everywhere you go. There would be no "bitch shields", there would be no getting bad reactions and getting blown out. If you treated everyone with love and like they were your best friend just imagine what your life would be like. You would be that guy that everywhere u go to socially interact, you would be treated like a star.

LR- Ibar pull to my suburban (1hr)

This is going to be a very detailed report. Enjoy.

**Mindset going into a club**

I'm here to have fun. I'm here to provide value in the form of fun. I talk to lots of people. Those guys standing there clutching there drinks hoping something cool happens, yea I'm here to brighten there day. I believe that these women love sex and they want some cool guy to take them home. Yea, I'm that guy.

**Tools and things I look for**

When I'm walking around the club I scan for AI. When I see it from a girl I want to approach I immediately go approach her unless I'm in set with some other girls. I like approaching girls I get AI from because that phase of building attraction is already taken care of for me, I just have to maintain it and ramp it up.

When I'm in set with a girl I am constantly using my body language in a dominant yet comfortable way for multiple purposes. One thru push/pull to keep her on her toes. I will show semi-disintrest thru body language as a tool to show her that she hasn't won me over. (ex. While I'm speaking to her I am scanning the room for AI from other girls). This previous example is powerful because it helps me on multiple levels. 1. By us being together she is social proofing me to other girl which I can approach later. 2. I see these AI's from those girl so I know who to approach later. 3. Since I'm going ADD on her abit she now fights to get my attention back by touching me. 4. Shows that I'm not fully invested in this interaction and may leave at any moment.

In isolation, I drop in one or two stories from my life that will help build a stronger emotional connection with a girl.

Throughout the set I'm constantly priming a girl in order to do a couple things. 1. It also her to know where I'm directing this interaction. 2. It acts as a road map for me, telling me where I'm at in the interaction. (ex. I tell a girl "If we continue talking that we are going to end up making out") In this example her nonverbal reaction to what I have said gives me feedback into how attracted she is to me, where I'm at in this interaction and if I can proceed with what I just stated. (Sinn does the same thing) (I call it priming)

State control. I do my best to be that solid rock that the waves crash upon. I try to project that no matter what she does or says that she is not going to fuck my state up and make me crumble. I'm going to stay being this guy thats having a lot of fun.

**The Report**

After speaking at the under21 convention on fri I went out to downtown with a bunch of the puas. It was Doc Hollyday's bday so we were going to meet at ibar. I get in there with Heartwork and I'm in a super fun state. On our first stretch of our first lap I see a 3set. It's two hispanic girls and one of the students from the convention. Having spoken to him yesterday I knew he was fairly new so I decided to wing him. That and I love latinas but don't tell anyone.

I open him with "Hey what's up bro", split second convo with him then open the girl that he isn't sitting by.

Me: Hey are you guys harrassing my buddy here? (jokingly laughing while I say it)
HB: No, he's harrassing us. (as she smiles and giggle)
Me: I don't believe you (as I sit down next to her)
Me: I can tell you are trouble. You probably scare alot of guys. (playful laughing)

We continue to chat a bit and I start priming her, teasing her and just adding to her night. She tells me that she is here with her bf. Doesn't matter to me, regaurdless I'm here to help out the other pua. After a couple minutes a third girl comes over wanting to dance. I ignore her for a second. The previous HB tells me to dance with her friend, HBsuburban. I intiate convo with her and have her sit next to me. I start teasing her and she starts to kino me my touching my hand and leg. I continue to talk to her about a couple more things and I prime her about making out. She's receptive and passively accepts what I say to her. I tell her to close her eyes and I kiss her. She doesn't kiss me back but responds with "but I don't know you". *This response told me that I needed to shift into emotionally connecting with her* I tell her a story about costa rica and some of my views on like. Here eyes go all DDB on me. She asks me to come dance with her.

We get up and I stop her 2 ft away. I look at her and say "Are you a good kisser or are your lips just for show?" and she immediately starts making out with me. After a little bit I stop the makeout. I allow her to lead me thru the crowd *Once again for social proof and I'm scanning around for AI*. We are dancing and talking. I tell her "You sem like a really cool girl but you don't have to believe me because I'm trying to get into your pants". She responds with a sexually curious "Really". I'm holding her hands and we make out. I pull away and tell her "This isn't fair what u are doing to me" (as I press her hand into my erection).

Immediately one her friends strolls over. The three of us talk for a second then I tell my girl "Hey my drink is empty. Come with me I'm getting another one". We get over to the bar and talk as the bartender is getting me a drink. I tell her we should hang out on sunday. Hand her my phone and write my number on a napkin. She hands me back my phone and doesn't help me out with the name recall. She had put her name in by her initials. I ask her a couple more questions and she starts rubbing my cock. At this point I'm thinking it's on when out of nowhere her 2 friends come over to steal her away. For me this is turned into do or die, how am I going to stall this. I open my mouth and ask the ringleader "Do u mind if her and I do a shot together first then you can have her?", she responds with something about her friend being a big gril and she's not her mother. She tells my HBsuburban that they are going to the bathroom and will be back down for her.

I'm like cool I bought my 5 mins max. I look my girl in the eyes and what comes out of my mouth was beautiful "It's too bad you have to leave I was going to take you on a romantic date to the bathroom. Where I was going to pull my dick out and masterbate for u", my girls eyes open very widely and I ask her "Would you like to watch?". She responds with a verbal maybe and a non-verbal frantic nodding up and down.

I grab her hand and lead her to the bathrooms where her friends are at. I look in the guys bathroom and there's a line. We talk to her friends for a second because they are waiting by the girls bathroom. I tell my girl come here and lead her downstairs and out of the club. As we are walking to my suburban she asks where my car is. We get to my parking garage and to my car. No words necessary I just open the backseat and let her in. We start making out and within minutes my dick is out and I'm getting head. I stop her and shift to the side. We continue making out and I slide my hands down her pants to finger her. I try to take them off but no go. I tell her it'll be better for her cause it's easier for my hand. Buttons undone. I try to slide them down with the premise of I want to go down on her. She allows me to slide them down but asks me why they have to come off. I tell her that they just do. Pants off and I try to go down on her but she wont let me. I slide her back, spread her legs and get in between them while I'm fingering her. I go for the old switcheroo but she stops me saying "but I don't have a condom" *passive acceptence for sex* so I stop completely and grab my bag that is in the back. Thank god I had a condom in there. I throw it on and she states that I probably do this alot. I ignore her statement and enter her. We fuck for abit and after I blow my load we walk back to the club. Inside we part ways, she goes to find her friends and I go to find mine.

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Acting in accordance to your beliefs

It's amazing how if you change the dynamic of your beliefs, how it will effect they way you interact with the world. I was thinking about this earier while I was working. I noticed if I shifted my beliefs about my job and changed my focus, how it would effect the level of how I would perform. Here's a good example of how this relates to pickup and life. If you have the belief that you are truely worthy of talking to and having beautiful women in your life, you will act accordingly and subcommunicate that. If you belief that you are not worthy then based on your subcommunications women will respond to you accordingly.

Sunday, March 30, 2008

Doing things for yourself

This is important in any action you take. If you are doing things for validation from other people or because you are worried what others think of you then you are coming at it the wrong way. Most people follow this path. They go to school for things and take jobs based on it making someone else proud (parents), don't risk talking to a girl because they are afraid that their friends won't find their choice attractive, etc. This is a joke, I know I've done it for so long in my life, it's a vicious cycle that makes you a puppet on strings. That's no way to live...in turmoil fighting against what would make you happy. This is your life, you came in this world alone and you're going to go out alone. Why not treat yourself as the most important thing in your life and do things to make yourself happy. I don't know about you but I don't want to be one of those people that looks back on his life when he's 60 and sits there reminiscing about things I wish I had taken risks on and had done differently.

Thursday, March 27, 2008

Modeling

I was just staring at the ceiling and I had this topic pop up in my head. I think this is absolutely key no matter what aspect of life you are engaging in. Be it pickup, work, exercise or whatever...it's good to have people that you strive for their level of success. I guess you can call it competing with where you are at v.s where you want to be. I believe it's healthy for everyone. Think about it, when you become complacent with where you are at then you become stagnant and no longer grow. What normally happens next is you start to slide down hill. Give me someone as competition, someone who has the success that I want...it'll force me to grow exponentially.

Moving

I can't wait to move out of my place. I have a feeling that Denver is going to be amazing. A new environment, new adventure and explorations. I'm so excited for the experiences that will come during the next year. Everything happens for a reason and I believe that things are coming full circle. Moving to me is always like being reborn. It's kinda like hitting the reset button on the NES when I was a kid. My question for you is...if you moved somewhere where no one knew you, would you remain the same person or would you decide to change?

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

My Lists

Sinn talks about having lists. One being 10 things to talk about, another being qualities you want in a woman and a third being characteristics you want women to know about you. I spent some time yesterday to come up with them.

10 things to talk about.

1. Moving to Denver. (what I'm excited about)
2. Capoeira and gymnastics
3. Traveling- costa rica and my 3 month road tip.
4. My sexual nature
5. Social interaction and dynamics.
6. Music
7. Dogs
8. Sexual Desires and dynamics
9. Scrubs and heroes (I love those shows)
10. My development/My life

10 qualities I want in women.

1. Humor (this is HUGE)
2. Charisma
3. Beauty (obviously)
4. Has to have a cool life-things going on for her
5. Can party but not an alchy, party girl
6. Sexual- presence & aggressiveness
7. Decisive (i don't need to feel like I'm acting as her daddy)
8. Caring/loving
9. Happy/full of life (I find this sexy)
10. Good hearted/loves animals

11 characteristics I want women to know about me

1. Caring
2. Outgoing
3. Sexually aggressive
4. Decisive- I go for what I want
5. Passionate
6. Charisma
7. Adventurous/risk taker
8. Great lover
9. Spontaneous- I live in the moment
10. Humerous
11. I'm awesome

Sunday, March 23, 2008

Sinn and El topo's seminars

I ended up going to everything. The lair talk and all three seminars. I saw a lot of value in everything. Normally I don't endorse products or anything but I have to say that I would have paid more for these. Both Sinn and el topo are really good at the way they present the material and they do their best to make sure you understand it.

For me this was a really sick weekend. The amount of mental stimulation that is going on with me is incredible. These seminars have popped up new ideas in my head for how I want to run my game and for other future situations I run across.

For anyone that that is hesitant about taking one of these I would say go for it. With my experience level I didn't know how much I would get from these but after sitting though them all I was fairly impressed. What course(s) is going to depend on the specific goals of the pua.

SNL- I learned some new stuff from this program but the big thing it did for me is that it solidified in my mind what I was already doing. For anyone not pulling and closing on a regular basis I would highly recommend this program.

Breakthough comfort- This program literally blew me away. The information that Sinn released in this left me with chills. As he was teaching this I was having epihanies pop up in my head. Ways I could use this and how I made girls fall for me in the past. Really powerful stuff.

Red stack- This is a massive tool for anyone that wants to be able to generate a highly dynamic interaction between yourself and women. Honestly if you are not getting the results you desire in set I would give this a shot.

Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Pua Gayness

This post may offend some of you and if it does....good. I have been in the community for about a year and I have seen a trend that I think is really gay. There's a bunch of pua's that don't act, they don't escalate and they wonder why they never get anywhere. Listen guys if you don't take risks and don't lead the interaction then you are going to wind up going home to a 7-some involving you, your hand and a jar of vasoline. The blame isn't on your wing, isn't that you ran across a bunch of cockblocks or bitches. Ultimately it's on you to either make it happen or to not make it happen.

My Bio

Some of you might already know who I am and some of you might not. I'm ratisse. I'm 25 and I've been in the community since march of 2007. Since joining the community I am at 102 lays for my lifetime. I came into this not trying to get laid but to improve the skillset I already had. I already had 44 lays already under my belt before I joined. I lost my virginity when I was 18.5 yrs old. During the next 6 yrs I spent three of them in relationships. I've had on multiple accounts "one-itis" for some random girl that I just met that was seeming to make my heart flutter because she seemed into me. Ultimately there are certain motivating factors that drive me to post FR's/LR's and even start this blog. One is I know where I was at back in the day, semi feeling of frustration and hopelessness, I know that that shit sucks. Two I love to help others and teach, it's something that brings me joy in life.