Doing things for yourself

This is important in any action you take. If you are doing things for validation from other people or because you are worried what others think of you then you are coming at it the wrong way. Most people follow this path. They go to school for things and take jobs based on it making someone else proud (parents), don't risk talking to a girl because they are afraid that their friends won't find their choice attractive, etc. This is a joke, I know I've done it for so long in my life, it's a vicious cycle that makes you a puppet on strings. That's no way to live...in turmoil fighting against what would make you happy. This is your life, you came in this world alone and you're going to go out alone. Why not treat yourself as the most important thing in your life and do things to make yourself happy. I don't know about you but I don't want to be one of those people that looks back on his life when he's 60 and sits there reminiscing about things I wish I had taken risks on and had done differently.

Modeling

I was just staring at the ceiling and I had this topic pop up in my head. I think this is absolutely key no matter what aspect of life you are engaging in. Be it pickup, work, exercise or whatever...it's good to have people that you strive for their level of success. I guess you can call it competing with where you are at v.s where you want to be. I believe it's healthy for everyone. Think about it, when you become complacent with where you are at then you become stagnant and no longer grow. What normally happens next is you start to slide down hill. Give me someone as competition, someone who has the success that I want...it'll force me to grow exponentially.

Moving

I can't wait to move out of my place. I have a feeling that Denver is going to be amazing. A new environment, new adventure and explorations. I'm so excited for the experiences that will come during the next year. Everything happens for a reason and I believe that things are coming full circle. Moving to me is always like being reborn. It's kinda like hitting the reset button on the NES when I was a kid. My question for you is...if you moved somewhere where no one knew you, would you remain the same person or would you decide to change?

My Lists

Sinn talks about having lists. One being 10 things to talk about, another being qualities you want in a woman and a third being characteristics you want women to know about you. I spent some time yesterday to come up with them.

10 things to talk about.

1. Moving to Denver. (what I'm excited about)
2. Capoeira and gymnastics
3. Traveling- costa rica and my 3 month road tip.
4. My sexual nature
5. Social interaction and dynamics.
6. Music
7. Dogs
8. Sexual Desires and dynamics
9. Scrubs and heroes (I love those shows)
10. My development/My life

10 qualities I want in women.

1. Humor (this is HUGE)
2. Charisma
3. Beauty (obviously)
4. Has to have a cool life-things going on for her
5. Can party but not an alchy, party girl
6. Sexual- presence & aggressiveness
7. Decisive (i don't need to feel like I'm acting as her daddy)
8. Caring/loving
9. Happy/full of life (I find this sexy)
10. Good hearted/loves animals

11 characteristics I want women to know about me

1. Caring
2. Outgoing
3. Sexually aggressive
4. Decisive- I go for what I want
5. Passionate
6. Charisma
7. Adventurous/risk taker
8. Great lover
9. Spontaneous- I live in the moment
10. Humerous
11. I'm awesome

Sinn and El topo's seminars

I ended up going to everything. The lair talk and all three seminars. I saw a lot of value in everything. Normally I don't endorse products or anything but I have to say that I would have paid more for these. Both Sinn and el topo are really good at the way they present the material and they do their best to make sure you understand it.

For me this was a really sick weekend. The amount of mental stimulation that is going on with me is incredible. These seminars have popped up new ideas in my head for how I want to run my game and for other future situations I run across.

For anyone that that is hesitant about taking one of these I would say go for it. With my experience level I didn't know how much I would get from these but after sitting though them all I was fairly impressed. What course(s) is going to depend on the specific goals of the pua.

SNL- I learned some new stuff from this program but the big thing it did for me is that it solidified in my mind what I was already doing. For anyone not pulling and closing on a regular basis I would highly recommend this program.

Breakthough comfort- This program literally blew me away. The information that Sinn released in this left me with chills. As he was teaching this I was having epihanies pop up in my head. Ways I could use this and how I made girls fall for me in the past. Really powerful stuff.

Red stack- This is a massive tool for anyone that wants to be able to generate a highly dynamic interaction between yourself and women. Honestly if you are not getting the results you desire in set I would give this a shot.

Pua Gayness

This post may offend some of you and if it does....good. I have been in the community for about a year and I have seen a trend that I think is really gay. There's a bunch of pua's that don't act, they don't escalate and they wonder why they never get anywhere. Listen guys if you don't take risks and don't lead the interaction then you are going to wind up going home to a 7-some involving you, your hand and a jar of vasoline. The blame isn't on your wing, isn't that you ran across a bunch of cockblocks or bitches. Ultimately it's on you to either make it happen or to not make it happen.

My Bio

Some of you might already know who I am and some of you might not. I'm ratisse. I'm 25 and I've been in the community since march of 2007. Since joining the community I am at 102 lays for my lifetime. I came into this not trying to get laid but to improve the skillset I already had. I already had 44 lays already under my belt before I joined. I lost my virginity when I was 18.5 yrs old. During the next 6 yrs I spent three of them in relationships. I've had on multiple accounts "one-itis" for some random girl that I just met that was seeming to make my heart flutter because she seemed into me. Ultimately there are certain motivating factors that drive me to post FR's/LR's and even start this blog. One is I know where I was at back in the day, semi feeling of frustration and hopelessness, I know that that shit sucks. Two I love to help others and teach, it's something that brings me joy in life.