The Legend of Ratisse

An updated list of my adventures

2011-01-10T20:06:00.005-05:00

http://www.scribd.com/doc/34161254/Tales-of-Debauchery

This is still missing some. I've started a new blog.

http://www.becomingratisse.blogspot.com

It will take over with going through my past and future. Portraiting the negative as well as the positive.

A brand new chapter- LA

2010-10-31T18:49:00.004-04:00

What's up guys. It's been awhile since I've blogged in awhile. I have a lot of stories to tell. The biggest news of all is I'm running wild with a woman that is running with me. I find myself in a relationship with a woman that is very similar to me in a lot of ways. I met her before the pua summit this year. Spent a weekend with her, then flew back 2 weeks later to spend a week with her and just recently I drove out here to spend over a month with her. The way it's looking now is that my adventures with be in LA from now on. It's looking like I'll be moving out here. Be on the look out for new adventures and finally released documentation of past adventures. This is going to be a fun ride.

My european vacation and other news

2010-07-06T14:52:00.004-04:00

Just got back from europe a couple days ago. Flew to sweden and gave a kick ass speech in stockholm. Taught 4 students in stockholm, berlin and prague. Hooked up with 11 girls on this trip as well. 7 lays, a bj, a handjob in the club and another handjob while eating a cheeseburger. Detailed report to come.

On other news the 21 convention is around the corner and if you haven't bought your ticket yet. I suggest you do so. You can reserve your seat here at: http://the21convention.eventbrite.com/?d

iscount=ratisse25

Finally, after years of people telling me to write an ebook I've decided to do so. Been working on it already. Should be done before the 2010 21 convention in orlando.

TSB Mag interview w/ me

2010-05-04T01:08:00.000-04:00

http://www.tsbmag.com/2010/04/23/how-to-have-fast-sex-the-legend-of-ratisse/

21 convention in orlando 2010

2010-05-04T01:01:00.002-04:00

I will be speaking there.

This is for anyone that buys a ticket to the orlando 21 convention through my link. I will be giving a free seminar on Same night lays to them.

http://the21convention.eventbrite.com/?discount=ratisse10

Inner game

2009-07-09T02:08:00.000-04:00

Inner game

This post is a culmination of my past and recent events which caused me to take a cold hard look and save myself from a downward spiral.

Your brain is an amazing tool, the only downside is that when you were born you weren’t given an instruction manual on how to operate it. On top of that, you were conditioned from birth, by factors out of your control which left you wired in a certain way. Your entire life has been lead based on the parameters of this wiring. I say fuck that! Choose to rewire yourself the way you want to be. To feel the way you want to feel.

It’s sad that most people have chosen to allow their emotional states to be dictated by the opinions of others. In this case what you are really doing is saying that your own opinions don’t mean shit compared to the opinions of strangers. This leads to neediness, lack of enjoyment of life, a never ending urge for people to like you and need to please the whims of others.

Guess what my friend. YOU are living YOUR life not these other people you are randomly meeting. In your mind, the most important person in your world should be YOU. If it isn’t, then you are living a false life there lies your problem. If you truly believed that your opinion of yourself is more important than what another person thinks of you some awesome things will happen.

1. You wouldn’t blow yourself out of set as much.
2. Your demenour what you present to the world would be different.
3. People would be responding to you different.
4. If that cute chick you are talking to gets disinterested and leaves, it won’t have that dagger to the heart affect on you.
5. Anxiety level will fall to the floor.
6. You won’t be seeking approval from others or trying to take value from them. Instead you will truly be interacting with people and connecting with them. This in it’s own is where magic starts happening.

All these negative thoughts that may be going on in your head (ex. I’m not (fill in the blank) and that’s why girls don’t like me) well guess what. EVERYONE YOU ENCOUNTER THINKS THIS SAME WAY. That hot chick that you want to approach, but are afraid to she may be a shy, scared little girl inside. The point is you don’t know what is going on in a persons head so to already make a judgement against yourself or about them before you’ve even talked to them is one of the biggest mistakes you can make.

Also along those lines, say you get rejected by some girl. You only see half the story and even then what you have is jaded because it is what you have applied meaning to. You may be saying “I suck with women, once again another one goes and proves it to me”, but since you don’t know what’s going on in her head or her life you are missing out on something huge. Her dog could have just died, just found out her dad has cancer, etc and you just happened to come around at the wrong time so there goes another dagger to your heart.

When you come to realize this as truth, an inner shift will occur and things that once caused you pain won’t affect you the same.

Learn to master your mind. It can be your greatest ally or foe depending on you. It can make you unbreakable or fragile, once again the choice is up to you. What I mean by this is your self talk. If you choose to moderate your mind and direct it to the positive, focusing on the greatness that is you; it becomes like invisible armor. When you allow it to run amuck, falter and fall into negative patterns; it becomes like poison that you are unknowingly injesting.

Focus on you because ultimately THE ONLY THING YOU CAN CONTROL IS YOU. Reclaim the power that was rightfully given to you at birth.

There are lots of book out there to help you on this discover. Two I would recommend are “Awaken the giant within” by Anthony Robbins and “Pyscho-cybernetics by “Maxwell Maltz.

I’m an open resource for help and change. I help those that seek it out. Feel free to add me on facebook. Facebook.com/ratisse

-Ratisse

Ratisse - Daygame/college game (free download)

2009-06-28T03:06:00.000-04:00

I recorded the seminar portion of the bootcamp I gave earlier. The title speaks for itself.

Just over an hour long.

http://www.megaupload.com/?d=4VPAMDYM

Enjoy

My going rate

2009-06-26T20:54:00.006-04:00

I have been training people for free and transforming their lives due to my advice and infield work with them for some time. Teaching takes away from my personal life and my actual job so I'm going to start charging.

My going rate is.

My bootcamps are as such. I do 1 on 1's

I live with u for 2 days- Intensive training- $1,500
I live with u for 5 days- Intensive training- $2,500
I live with u for 10 days- Intensive training- $4,800
I live with u for 15 days- Intensive training- $6,900
I live with u for 20 days- Intensive training- $8,800

The criteria is about teaching you everything I know in as much time as possible based on what u want to learn.

I teach day game, night game, bar staff game, stripper game, building social circles, how to became apart of another persons social circle, college game, how to keep gf's, etc....

The more time I have the more I can reinforce, demo and teach. These are an intense crash course. Included if needed/desired for those that invest in the day time is fashion consulting and shopping.

Also I do inner game work if needed.

I fly to you or you fly to me.

If you would like references from my current/previous students. They will be down to talk with you.

Problem approaching people? Gotcha covered

2009-06-26T20:51:00.001-04:00

Go out ALONE and decide that you are not going to drink for that night. NO MATTER WHAT!

What this does is it throws you in a situation where you can't use needing to get another drink as a reason not to approach. By not drinking you won't be numb to your inner feelings and thoughts. Also if you don't start approaching you will start feeling uneasy because you are ALONE. This leads you to run into one of two realities.

1. Out of pain (the uneasiness you feel) you will start approaching people to get out of that state. You will notice the more people you talk to the more social you will feel. You should start feeling an excitement adrenaline energy rush. It'll be like a drug and you'll have an awesome night.

or

2. Out of pain (the same uneasiness) you'll give into it and go home to alleviate that pain.

Ultimately the choice is yours, but the truth in it is if you man up and have courage, it becomes easy to achieve outcome #1.

Free downloads

2009-06-26T20:35:00.008-04:00

My 2008 under 21 speech: http://www.megaupload.com/?d=WKT8XCXQ

My 2008 chi lair talk speech: http://www.megaupload.com/?d=YK6BSLMG

An accumulation of most of my Lr's/Fr's (over 70 Lr's): http://www.4shared.com/file/114194468/eddd3135/Confessions_of_a_PUA.html

Text game: http://www.megaupload.com/?d=2LZ079VT

12 mins of comfort (video from 2007): http://www.megaupload.com/?d=P23X7JSG

Part 1 of a day 3 (full close): http://www.megaupload.com/?d=R08YLDFZ

Part 2 of a day 3 (full close): http://www.megaupload.com/?d=HLEXUGYI

Here's the LR from the archives

(2/7/08)
I went on my day 3 with this girl. When I got there i decided to record audio so I have a file from meet to bouncing her to my place. In int is a typical example of how a lot of my dates go. If you pay attention you will notice my style, how I incorporate mixing up attraction with comfort.

While we were there I bought 2 pitchers for us and two games of pool. I know how some people say to not treat a girl, make her pay for stuff but I didn't care. I looked at it like I was doing it because I wanted to, that and the fact that she had already giving me head days ago. After the two games of pool we hung out and just got to know each other before I bounced her. We bounce out of there and hit up blockbuster to grab a movie. We also stop by a gas station for a frozen pizza and a 6 pack which she pays for.

After we got here I escalated slowly. Just going at a speed that was keeping her comfortable. I got LMR'd on fingering her. After a bit I end up stripping all my clothes off and getting her to play with me while I fingered her. Once that was on I slipped off the panties and went down on her. From here it was really easy. I got her extremely stimulated from sexual activity. When I could tell she was turned on enough I said I was going to grab a condom. To this she replied ok.

I full closed her then a little later she gave me head. Never got to watch the movie though.

Review from MochaMassacre (tampa, fl)

2009-05-20T20:39:00.002-04:00

He left this in my journal on toplair
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Ratisse completely changed all of my perceptions in terms of women over the last 6 months. I started talking to Ratisse through phone consultations back in December. From the time I began talking to him he began helping me through all my current sticking points; and by doing what he advised I was able to blast through them quickly.

He's a great guy who just wants to see his students succeed and accomplish their dreams and goals.

Through him I was able to learn how to pickup women in any situation, seduce women in any situation, pickup MILFs, create entourages and social groups full of valuable women and men, how to work an entire room, venue, or party, and essentially... how to be the life of any party.

At this point in my game I can consistently accomplish all my short term goals with women, and use that as a base to accomplish all my longterm goals.

Ratisse is charismatic and energetic, and if you let him, he will completely mess up your world and teach you how to build your own. He's the perfect example of believing in your own reality the best PUA I have ever seen in my life.

Beat her LMR

2009-05-16T14:15:00.000-04:00

Beat her lmr to the punch by telling her "We aren't having sex tonight. She'll most likely tell u "Your right that u 2 aren't having sex tonight." Reply with "The reason y is Im selective and I don't know if I want to sleep with u yet". This steals the frame in your favor. Then throughout the escaltation if she resists you playing with her boobs, touching her vag, taking close off- keep the frame up that u arent sleeping together tonight. Continue escalation.

You may have to get creative when u get resistance and bring up that its ok to play but u 2 arent having sex.

Get her touching ur cock thru ur pants. If she rubs, fondles u- Undo ur pants and get her touching ur bare cock. If she's cool with it then out comes the dick. Get her playing with it. Straddle her and thrust forward toward her mouth. See if she puts it in. If she does, awesome- while getting head stimulate her vagina and eventually go for taking off the pants. If she doesn't continue arousing her by making out w her, her playing with ur cock. Next start rubbing her vagina. Get her turned on and either go for the bj or try and take her pants off.

Rinse and repeat till sex.

Ultimate trump is ur celebite.

Review from A. L. (iowa)

2009-04-13T23:20:00.002-04:00

What can i say about ratisse ?

He is about 5'11", dark makeups around his eyes, with eye catching lip piercings, and hand cuffs in his left pockets, black t-shirts, gothic hair style, and finished off with black chains made out of cotton wrapped around his body. His eye contact is like a tiger ready to attack a prey, and he speaks with a very high authority. Yes, he was a very charismatic person, but my first impression of him was quite intimidating, but don't worry, he is pretty cool guy once you get to know him for more than 3 minutes.

I had a privilege of being trained by Ratisse on a bootcamp for one night in chicago. I met him at his place initially and we spent 2 hrs there first going over his principals when approaching the targets, what to expect in the field, going over some of the questions i had. The " personalized lecture" with ratisse was very brief but was very much to the point. He always cut to the chase without time wasted. The only thing I wish there would be more of was to have more structure in his lecture, but ratisse is more of a person who believes "less talking and more actions'

'nuf said.

Let me get to the meat of the bootcamp. THE FIELD !! What can i say about him? He can strike as a "cocky person" when it comes to him telling about his game. but he's gotta be. He is really good. I have yet to see a person who can escalate and make out with girls within 2 minutes on ALMOST EVERY SET (I can only recall 2 occasions when he failed to kiss close, mind you he did 10-20 demos that night). He uses his well calibrated social skill, high energy and his charisma to his advantage. and I was literally mind blown. It has been about 12 hours after I had a bootcamp and I am still shocked of what I have seen. He didn't do anything special. He didn't have a routine he relies on heavily. He talked to girls in the same manner he would talk to his students. He did this naturally without even flinching. So natural. He has internalized the game so much into himself now he's became the game. That is why I am so shocked by it.

As a boot camp instructor, he was pretty good. He walked me through his style of approaching the game several times. First he demonstrated his skills 2-3 times for me to observe and he made me mimic what he does. He did have a set of lesson routines that he uses for his students: demonstrate, students follow, students wing for ratisse, and later on ratisse wings for his students.

The only bad thing that I experienced in the field with him was that I could not catch up to him. he was so far advanced and threw me so much knowledge at once I could barely breathe through my neck, but I guess that is what the purpose of what the boot camp is all about.

GOOD: You want a fucking awesome PUA?? Here he is.He is good at multiple dimensions, natural game style, routine based gameTons of demonstrationsQ and A with him is just mind blowing.

BAD: His bootcamp could be more structurized, but I believe this would come with time. No worries.

I still have a hard time understanding why what he does works so well. I don't think he knows that either. If he could have broken down his game and his approach into smaller bits, I would have been able to internalize the info a lot faster.

I am gonna finish my review by saying this. My review has been completely unbiased. I have been completely honest with this and I can completely swear by it.

IF YOU ARE A NEWCOMER INTO THE GAME LIKE I AM, I STRONGLY SUGGEST YOU TO MEET RATISSE. OBSERVE WHAT HE DOES. LEARN FROM HIM. LISTEN TO WHAT HE HAS TO SAY. I guarantee your success.

Review from Birdman (chicago)

2009-04-09T21:10:00.001-04:00

My Review of Ratisse PUA

For those of you who don’t know Ratisse, he’s about 5’10, 160lbs, double lip piercings, enough energy to light up a small city, and enough game in his body language alone to out game half the assholes out there in the community today.

I first met Ratisse at a lair talk he was doing for Project-Chicago. His talk was fairly interesting, a lot of cool new one-liners to help oneself step up the sexual escalation ladder, a lot of ideas about body language, and a fairly complex yet satisfyingly comprehensive break down of social proof that clarified a lot of confusion I had built up from reading community jargon over the last 8-9 months of my pick-up career.

Yet, the line that truly caught my interest at the end of the night was Ratisse’s announcement that he would be giving away free bootcamps and 1on1s fairly consistently over the next year. As someone such as myself that has decided to take a year off in between college and med-school to work on nothing but game, obviously I jumped at this opportunity. And let me tell you, I cannot emphasize enough how happy I am that I got to work with Ratisse in the field.

Over the last 8-9 months, I’ve taken 4 boot camps with some pretty big name guru’s (I don’t want to disclose their names in this review, but if you want to contact me personally about my opinions of these other guru’s individually, I would be happy to answer your questions – my email is "edited out"). I’ve worked with a number of guru’s over phone consults, taken a couple 1on1’s, and read A LOT of posts/ebooks. That being said, I can honestly say without hesitation – Ratisse is THE BEST GURU I HAVE EVER SEEN IN FIELD EVER.

Ratisse in field is a fucking animal. I have never seen anybody know how to work a room better than him. This man can walk into a venue, and by the end of the night he will have made friends with almost everyone in the bar, collected about 12 phone numbers, social proofed himself out the ass, set up numerous day two’s, and probably bounced a hot girl or two to some sort of after hours location.

I’m not ENTIRELY sure how he does it, but he has been teaching me slowly. I can honestly say that almost every minute I hang out with him, I learn something new. I think his true strength lies in the fact that he has an AMAZING understanding of how social proof works. That, combined with near flawless body language, a natural ability to lead, impeccable sexual escalation and kino skills, and his ability to juggle multiple ideas in his head at once (including his ability to handle logistics AND keep an eye on his student at the same time) all make him a ridiculously amazing PUA.

On top of that, Ratisse gives more of a fuck about how his students are doing than almost any other PUA I’ve met. This guy legitimately wants the people around him to get better, and he’s very good and figuring out how to teach.

Within one night of working with Ratisse, I would say that my in-field skills jumped up equally to what they would in a month if I was working on my own. One awesome thing Ratisse does, is he would come up to me while I was in set and subtly hold a note on his cell phone out for me that would tell me what to do – I would do it, and the girl would be all over my shit. Within a night, Ratisse turned me from a pua-in-training that would go up to girl after girl approaching, to a pua that had girls approaching me telling me I’m hot because they had been watching me interact with other people all night. And let me tell you, the difference is awesome. He also gives you great advice in between sets while you’re just chillen, gives great text message advice, and is just a cool fucking dude to hang out with. Highly recommended.

The only down side that I can see with Ratisse, and this is nothing more than pure conjecture on my part since I have yet to see this other side of him, is I’m not sure how good he would be in giving long-term dating advice that is specific for me. Eventually I would like to settle down with one girl in a comfortable and highly sexual relationship, and Ratisse just seems like the type of guy who sleeps with a lot of women (96 in the last 18-19 months I think to be exact). And again, I might be wrong, but I felt that I had to have a down side for Ratisse since I’ve said so many good things and this is the best I could come up with.

I’ve worked with a couple other guys in the community (Entropy comes to mind) that I feel have done wonders for my inner game, and have given me advice on how to find a girl that I really like and connect with on emotional level – and I think other people might be better for this type of game. But if you wanna learn how to meet a lot of girls that are interested in you quickly, figure out how to social proof yourself, build a social circle, have impeccable body language, and sexual escalate like a pro – then Ratisse is your man.

Birdman

Enjoyment of Life

2009-04-09T21:07:00.000-04:00

People now a days are in so much of a rush trying to achieve goals. When one is achieved they rush on to the next without fully enjoying the process. This causes a sense of unending hurry to get things done, but when each task is done there is a feeling of emptyness. Yes there is a thrill right at the end, but it is jaded because while you may spend days in order to complete a task, you only enjoy a few moments of satisfaction and happiness. This does not need to be.

Learn to enjoy your surroundings,situations, all the moments in between the tasks and appreciate being alive.

Review from El Topo

2009-04-03T16:55:00.002-04:00

So I wanted to chime in here...
Not to toot my own horn, but I know that I am a good instructor in the community...
that being said, I wanted to tip my hat to Ratisse.

Let me just say that Ratisse is not only bad ass for doing this, but he is also an amazing guy as well as an amazing instructor. I am not sure if you know him personally, I am sure many guys may know him better than myself, but he is an impressive mix of teacher and PUA. He is an amazing instructor that really puts his all into his students and his own progression.

I have met a lot of instructors in the community and I would want Ratisse to be working working with me over many of the other ones I know.

In order to be good at teaching, you have to have a HUGE range in order to facilitate a wide variety of students. Ratisse has a great rounding of all the things necessary, probably the most valuable is that he cares about who he is working with.

If you want some great Instruction (apparently for FREE) then you're an idiot not to take him up on this.

He is for real.
Plus no instructors other than GoneSavage and sometimes myself have ever been as giving as Ratisse.
when you have a Superior Instructor freely giving...now that is RARE!

This is also something that is not seen in the Community, there are few like this, who actually care about working with people and are willing to sacrifice what other instructors won't....GREED and Financial Well being!

SUPPORT IT!
If you like what he is doing post about it EVERYWHERE and help him out!

Funny cause i write this as I raise all my prices...In any case, the dude is a bad ass guy...see you guys soon!

ET

Review from Exalt (chicago)

2009-03-28T19:42:00.000-04:00

I met up with Ratisse a couple of nights ago. I think he has a badass style and knows his shit. Very energetic and fast paced. We started with about an hour talk before we went out. During this time he taught me a few cool things. I learned an easy way to get in state and an effective way to beat aa. As other people have said, when we went out Ratisse was very adamant about pushing me into sets. Girls, guys, large, small, anything and everything. I remember one mixed set in particular that I was pussing out on, he literally kicked me into it, ha. This was great because the set went fine and it showed me that I had nothing to be afraid of. Through his bold coaching style and the exercises he had me do, I learned that there is no set you can't approach. Overall the night was very helpful for me. I saw some possibilities I had never considered before and it helped to squash some limiting beliefs. At the end of the night we had about a half hour debrief. He told me what I need to be working on and gave me a plan to do it. He also offered to help me personalize some powerful stories, which was really cool. Everyone could benefit from working with Ratisse, especially if you need a good kick in the ass like I did. I would recommend trying to book some time with him if you can.

Review from ScottyD (chicago)

2009-03-26T14:14:00.001-04:00

Met up with Ratisse yesterday to check out his style. Guy is great at working the room. As far as I saw, he talks to everyone (man and woman) which makes it very easy to drop in and out of sets of interest. ratisse has a lot of energy and enthusiasm. Its infectious which is awesome, he def raised my energy levels. If a low key approach is more your style, its going to be hard to "turn on" ratisse's style, but there are things to be learned from it that anyone can apply. I think the person who can benefit the most from working with Ratisse is a guy uncomfortable in large social settings, looking for a way to connect with others, build rapport, and be able to use that as social proof. In short, ratisse has a lot to offer, I had a great time working the room with him. Def hit him up and check his availability.

Review from Libido (orlando)

2009-03-24T19:47:00.001-04:00

Ratisse is one of the best, and most underated pua's anywhere. His style, frame control, and escalation cannot be found in anything you will read or see anywhere else.

If you're looking for a top notch instructor, with both the experience and skillsets to give anyone a run for their money, Ratisse is an excellent choice. If you can take him up on this incredible value, do not hesitate.

Libido...

Professional Dating Coach 2006 - 2008
Speaker 2007 U21 Convention
Speaker 2008 U21 Convention
Tentative Speaker 2009 U21 Convention

Review from Nektar

2009-03-24T19:46:00.002-04:00

I’ve hung out with Ratisse quite a bit, and his abilities never cease to amaze me. I would highly recommend training with him, as he is one of the best PUAs I’ve seen – and I’ve trained with and/or hung out with a wide variety of gurus across most major companies.

What sets his game apart from others is: 1.) he acts on his instincts and takes advantage of windows of opportunity better than anyone I’ve seen in the seduction community (I've seen him pull an extremely attractive girl in less than 5 minutes...on more than one occasion); 2.) his inner game and overall outlook on life are rock solid (he lives the life he advocates, something not all gurus do); 3.) the prior two characteristics are extremely difficult for anyone to teach, but Ratisse does a phenomenal job of conceptualizing these characteristics and explaining them in crystal clear terms – a very important skill for any instructor to have; 4.) he demonstrates a genuine interest in helping his students excel.

John (Nektar), Orlando, FL

Inner game and being true to your core

2009-02-27T13:54:00.002-05:00

Being true to your core is probably THE most important thing you can do for yourself. Comprimising your morals, values and what you stand for can only lead to inner issues. Case in point- myself. I have a job that if I truly bust my ass I can make a lot of money, but there is a problem. It clashes with how I feel at my core. It causes me to not be as pasionate about my job making it mundane and I have to somewhat fake it. The reprecussions from my job cause me to sometimes not like myself. Do u see the conflict? If you have inner game issues, you should take a long, hard look at yourself and the things you do in your day to day life. If there are certain things that you do that cause you pain then eliminate them. Ultimately your happiness and opinion of yourself is what truly matters.

Tim Ferris

2009-01-29T00:18:00.000-05:00

Great blog

http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/

Mexico- Dec 21 to Jan 23

2009-01-28T03:50:00.002-05:00

For those of you that haven't traveled outside the united states I suggest that YOU GO!!!! This would be my second trip outside the states. In sept of 2007 I treated myself to a birthday present of going to Costa Rica. For years I had been putting off traveling for multiple reasons. And take it from me some of these reasons on hindsight have been THE DUMBEST EXCUSES. i.e I'll lose out on "x" amount of dollars. With CR and Mexico, both trips have been life changing. Mexico even more so due to the fact of being there for 34 days. You want to talk about living in the moment. My day started out waking up whenever, getting food, talking to locals, self exploration, listening to music, reading and assortment of other things. If you were to ask me on a peticicular day what day of the week it was I didn't have a clue. Only thing I would use paying attention to time was when I was to meet up with someone.

I've spent about $4,000 between both trips but I feel that it was worth it. In fact the insight into myself, my future careerwise and pickup wise alone was worth the trip.

I found out things about myself like for example, for the last 2 yrs I have been shutting women away from truly allowing themselves to show me who they are out of fear I might actually like them and want to persue it or god forbid, fall in love with them.

While I was there I met a girl in mexico who seemed as cool as she was beautiful and decided to take a risk and date her. This led to 3.5 wks of bliss, myself developing feelings for her and her ultimately falling madly in love with me. By the time I had to leave I was truly sad to have to depart and detach myself from this woman. If things were different and she was close I would be continuing to see her daily. This experience opened my eyes to the possibility of giving women a chance. I can't even fathom how many countless women that never made it past getting to spend 1 or 2 dates with me before I gave them the axe.

I have that I feel I want to post but that will have to come at a later date due to need for sleep.

Dan Millman

2009-01-26T00:54:00.002-05:00

I ended up watching "The way of the peaceful warrior". I thought it was really good, deeper insights come out of the movie if you truly pay attention. So being the curious person that I am I desided to research more on it because after all this was based on a true story. This lead me to Dan millman's site. He has a blog on there that seems to have some potential. I plan on going through it further.

http://www.danmillman.com

Review of my speech

2008-11-30T13:53:00.001-05:00

**Showtime~ from RSDnation.com**

Ratisse start telling about why he entered the community and its very different from alot of people.. and wich is a good and different way..

Then he talks a bit about limiting beliefs and gives some examples on his own history , and about he fucking girls with no bed HAHAHA..

He tells a bit of something that he do that most of guys doesnt do, go when you find approach invitations.. but without excuses .. no matter if you are with friends or sober..

On text game he gave some cool tips and encourage to have routines, It was never a weak point of mine so I cant opine on that, but the tips were good.. How to game Hungover or Sick .. He told how he developed his text stack.. and shared some of his rules on text

Then he starts talking about priming , that was by far my favorite part, and to me, to most useful and important one.. Its a little cool thing that anyone can add to their game and skyrocket the results.. basically could be something on the lines of "If you guess my name right I will makeout with you" but there is much more he talks about it like 20 minutes.. this alone guys is worth watching the presentation.. in more or less one month after listening I got laid three times.. of course there is more things on my game, but this played huge part, it helps to see if the set is going somewhere.. and later he talks about his delivery on it

And then a bit of state control and being state independent from the girls state and the importance of being unreactive including a report from his experience , worth listening

And some good tips on lmr, some smart way to go its good if you have no experience..

Its all useful things, made for getting results, Im looking to see the 2009 thing.. the best thing its free.. definatelly worth watching guys

5/5

Review from a pua

2008-11-27T19:34:00.001-05:00

**Sent to me by Joseph from the Project Chicago lair**

Review of Pre RedStack Seminar Coaching with El Topo and Ratisse

The week that El Topo did the lair talk with Project Chicago he also did a RedStack seminar that Sunday. The night before the seminar, El Topo took out the seminar attendees to get a feel for where each attendee was, and where they are with their game, and what each person’s strengths and weaknesses were.

We met up for dinner at a restaurant in Wicker Park, and were joined by Ratisse who would help El Topo with coaching that night. Those of you who frequent the RSD boards might be familiar with the name. Ratisse is a bit younger and has more of a higher energy, very playful natural style and is always on. He was a very interesting guy. He peacocks a bit too. He showed up at the restaurant gothed out with eyeliner, double lip piercings, and . . . anyone . . . anyone . . . you guessed it, the quintessential black nails. The guy definitely carries himself with a lot of confident energy and swagger as well.

He sat down and we started talking. For a guy that comes off as so hyper-confident, Ratisse was actually pretty laid back and extremely cool to talk to. Very early on in the conversation he mentioned that he didn’t have a big ego about dealing with people and likes to work with people. That turned out to be true, and he was really good at motivating each of us for the night to come. I think this guy is up and coming in the pickup community and is a name that you will hear a lot about in the coming months and years.

One thing about dinner was that Ratisse helped me refine my strategy for picking up the type of women that I want, as well as work with me on some customized material to help me convey some of the things that I am passionate about. The specific routine started with my main hobby of snowboarding and what that’s like for me, and then used that to build up a conversational theme of stepping outside your boundaries. Then he pointed out how you can use that to start sexually framing a woman pretty early on in the conversation. After that he turned and worked with each of the guy’s around the table. He kind of had this urgency to him, where he wanted to help everyone there. The guy definitely has a gift for coaching and a desire to help people.

Over dinner, El Topo interviewed each of the seminar attendees in depth, collecting detailed information about their lifes and their histories. He took notes, but in retrospect he did most of the seminar from memory. One of the things that makes El Topo such a gifted teacher is that (this sounds cliché as I write it but . . .) He has a natural understanding of people and emotions, and just humanity for lack of a better term. To those that ask how he got good so fast, that is his gift that enabled that. It’s also the main thing that I get from him from a coaching perspective whenever we hang out is that he just exudes that innate understanding of human interaction.

We went out to English. There were six attendees and two coaches. I got 1-1 time with both Ratisse and El Topo. The specific feedback I got from El Topo is that I move around too much in set, and it comes off as being uncomfortable. Also, that I need to drop the attraction vibe and engage earlier to start building rapport, and to take her in and out of different emotions.

Working with Ratisse in field was fun because he just dominates every set that I saw him in. It was timely too though because I am in Sinns coaching program and my assignment for the week was to have more fun and be more playful in set, because I take pickup too seriously to the point of it interfering with my game. Ratisse is so laid back and fun infield that I just dropped all game for a change and went into set after set just having fun. We spotted this really hot blonde in a two set and I had already decided to go in when he spotted her and said go in. It was her birthday and the conversation got sexual pretty quickly. It was about a half and hour set. Lot’s of kino sexual talk. It got a bit too much into comfort towards the end, and I somehow ended up in Day-2 land with a solid phone number, but no SNL, which I think was a possibility at the beginning of the set. Later Ratisse made me text her and push for the late night meet up and even wrote the text for me. Text game is one of his specialties. I got a good reply fast, but still didn’t get the SNL. Odds for SNL drop drastically once you let them out of your site because you have to constantly manage their state. This woman was definitely high quality though, and it was a confidence builder just getting as far as I did.

LR- Solo at the stripclub (11/20)

2008-11-26T00:46:00.001-05:00

I went out Thursday, Friday and Saturday. Each night I took home a different girl and fucked her. Here’s the first of 3 LR’s.

Thursday- Milwaukee, WI.

After working out I had the urge to go out. My work partner was being lame- wanting to stay at the hotel. I decided to go across the parking lot to this mexican restaurant/bar to see what was going on. Nothing cool going on here- place was dead AND no hot chicks. I talk to the bartender for a second and find out where the nearest strip club is. I get there and it isn’t very packed which is an awesome thing when trying to game strippers.

Grabbed myself water from the bar, plant myself at the stage to watch this blue haired hottie do her thing. When she came over I did my thing, teased her, made her laugh and sent her on her way to work guys for money. After she got off stage I stuck around to watch the next girl work the stage. Rinse and repeat when she comes over and I bounce over to an empty table against the way to wait patiently like a spider on a web. Moments later the blue haired beauty strolls over to talk to me. We chat a little bit then she asks my name. I give it to her and continue the conversation. Eventually she asks me “Don’t you want to know my name.”, I tell her “Sure even though at the moment it doesn’t matter”. She gives me both her stage name and real name.

We continue on about a range of different things and a shot girl comes over. I decline buying a shot. The stripper asks if I drink. I tell her “Yes but I don’t need alcohol to be social. She tells me “I’m buying you a fucking shot!” and I accept because I’m not one to turn down free alcohol. This then turns into a couple more shots. After a bit she has to go back on stage. She asks me not to go anywhere cause she wants to come back to me.

While she’s on stage I start engaging the other strippers that are walking around. She ends up coming back and the conversation remains fun and I get the feeling that she isn’t trying to work me for money, but I continue to keep my distance and rarely touch her. I start talking about sexual things like how kissing is a big turn on for me and that if someone sucks at that the sex would probably suck. She agrees with me. I ask her what her type is when it comes to guys. She asks me to go first and reframe it saying she’s just wants to know if I find her attractive, which she admits to. I tell her that I think she is hot. She tells me she loves my lip rings, my style and thinks I’m sexy. After awhile of us talking she tells me that she wants to make out with me. I acknowledge her statement and continue the conversation. After awhile she tells me again. I do the exact same thing as before.

I tell her that I’m impressed that she’s hanging out with me when she could be working. She tells me she likes being around me and is having fun. She ends up having to go back on stage and other strippers start coming over to me again. Same pattern they enjoy my conversation then leave when the blue haired girl comes over again. After awhile I tell her “I think your cool and would hangout with you later but it wouldn’t work because I go back to Chicago tomorrow”. She tells me that we should hang out next time I’m in town and gives me her number. After awhile she has to go back on stage and while in the middle of her set she motions for me to come up there. She comes over to me, nuzzles her face into my neck and starts licking my ear. I tell her she should try to arouse me like that that’s how naughty things happen. I go back to my table and she comes back over.

More conversation and I end up telling her that it’s a shame that I have to be up early in the morning otherwise I’d think of letting her take me home. She tells me that wouldn’t be so bad because she kinda wants to fuck me, but she has a guest over so that wouldn’t work. Eventually after her being persistent about making out with me I allow her to take me in the back to get a dance. While in the back she tells me she has an idea. Maybe we could fuck in the back of my car. During the dance she starts making out with me. She pulls away, looks me in the eyes and tells me she’s certain about her idea.

After the dance we have a couple more drinks. End up solidifying details a little more. I bounce out of the club about 10 mins before it closes. She had asked me to meet her in the parking lot of Denny’s because she doesn’t want her coworkers to know that she’s going off to fuck some guy. She shows up and I bring her to my hotel room. I bring her in and it wakes my buddy up. He gets to listen to the action as it goes down. 2 blowjob’s and a round of sex.

Adam Lyons interviews Sinn

2008-10-03T19:36:00.000-04:00

Enjoy.

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where I'm at

2008-09-01T09:55:00.000-04:00

The way I see it is I have come to a point in my life where it is time to grow. The biggest thing for me now is developing my inner relationship with myself. I've gotten really good at pick but really what is it based on, by whose guide lines am I measure success. I've come so far in good ways and also bad ways since I was younger. One thing that I notice is gone is my innocence. I connected on deeper levels with people when I was around the age of 18-21. I must find that again. My frame needs to change, I must come from a frame of not desiring anything from anyone. It some thing I'm working on. Must push past the vail that hinders you to blindspot, to see past the superficial bullshit. That's truly the only real way to connect with people. To become more focused on intergrating the truth that my own relationship with myself, no matter what, is the most important ting in this world. Embracing your fears and at the same time, you fearlessness. Choosing to embrace the true beauty that is you.

What is it to be an olympian

2008-08-08T21:30:00.000-04:00

Yesterday, while I was in walgreens reading a magazine I ran across a great article. I want to share it with you.

What is it to be an olympian. It is to be great, to be inspiring. It requires unwaivering commitment, work beyond limits & an indomitable spirit. Pursuing it undaunted despite the challenges that will invariably occur. You cannot lose when you pursue olympian ideals- in every aspect of your life. If you're man enough to try you can only win.

A lesson from Earl

2008-07-30T20:59:00.003-04:00

As I sit here typing this up my father's dog is by my side. He kind of inspired me. You can learn alot from man's best friend. When they see you they are extremely happy and excited to see you and it puts a smile on your face. They love you unconditionally and without question. They ask for nothing but your affection and love. Imagine if you were to treat everyone like that. Just bringing positive vibes everywhere you go. There would be no "bitch shields", there would be no getting bad reactions and getting blown out. If you treated everyone with love and like they were your best friend just imagine what your life would be like. You would be that guy that everywhere u go to socially interact, you would be treated like a star.

LR- Ibar pull to my suburban (1hr)

2008-07-30T18:34:00.005-04:00

This is going to be a very detailed report. Enjoy.

**Mindset going into a club**

I'm here to have fun. I'm here to provide value in the form of fun. I talk to lots of people. Those guys standing there clutching there drinks hoping something cool happens, yea I'm here to brighten there day. I believe that these women love sex and they want some cool guy to take them home. Yea, I'm that guy.

**Tools and things I look for**

When I'm walking around the club I scan for AI. When I see it from a girl I want to approach I immediately go approach her unless I'm in set with some other girls. I like approaching girls I get AI from because that phase of building attraction is already taken care of for me, I just have to maintain it and ramp it up.

When I'm in set with a girl I am constantly using my body language in a dominant yet comfortable way for multiple purposes. One thru push/pull to keep her on her toes. I will show semi-disintrest thru body language as a tool to show her that she hasn't won me over. (ex. While I'm speaking to her I am scanning the room for AI from other girls). This previous example is powerful because it helps me on multiple levels. 1. By us being together she is social proofing me to other girl which I can approach later. 2. I see these AI's from those girl so I know who to approach later. 3. Since I'm going ADD on her abit she now fights to get my attention back by touching me. 4. Shows that I'm not fully invested in this interaction and may leave at any moment.

In isolation, I drop in one or two stories from my life that will help build a stronger emotional connection with a girl.

Throughout the set I'm constantly priming a girl in order to do a couple things. 1. It also her to know where I'm directing this interaction. 2. It acts as a road map for me, telling me where I'm at in the interaction. (ex. I tell a girl "If we continue talking that we are going to end up making out") In this example her nonverbal reaction to what I have said gives me feedback into how attracted she is to me, where I'm at in this interaction and if I can proceed with what I just stated. (Sinn does the same thing) (I call it priming)

State control. I do my best to be that solid rock that the waves crash upon. I try to project that no matter what she does or says that she is not going to fuck my state up and make me crumble. I'm going to stay being this guy thats having a lot of fun.

**The Report**

After speaking at the under21 convention on fri I went out to downtown with a bunch of the puas. It was Doc Hollyday's bday so we were going to meet at ibar. I get in there with Heartwork and I'm in a super fun state. On our first stretch of our first lap I see a 3set. It's two hispanic girls and one of the students from the convention. Having spoken to him yesterday I knew he was fairly new so I decided to wing him. That and I love latinas but don't tell anyone.

I open him with "Hey what's up bro", split second convo with him then open the girl that he isn't sitting by.

Me: Hey are you guys harrassing my buddy here? (jokingly laughing while I say it)
HB: No, he's harrassing us. (as she smiles and giggle)
Me: I don't believe you (as I sit down next to her)
Me: I can tell you are trouble. You probably scare alot of guys. (playful laughing)

We continue to chat a bit and I start priming her, teasing her and just adding to her night. She tells me that she is here with her bf. Doesn't matter to me, regaurdless I'm here to help out the other pua. After a couple minutes a third girl comes over wanting to dance. I ignore her for a second. The previous HB tells me to dance with her friend, HBsuburban. I intiate convo with her and have her sit next to me. I start teasing her and she starts to kino me my touching my hand and leg. I continue to talk to her about a couple more things and I prime her about making out. She's receptive and passively accepts what I say to her. I tell her to close her eyes and I kiss her. She doesn't kiss me back but responds with "but I don't know you". *This response told me that I needed to shift into emotionally connecting with her* I tell her a story about costa rica and some of my views on like. Here eyes go all DDB on me. She asks me to come dance with her.

We get up and I stop her 2 ft away. I look at her and say "Are you a good kisser or are your lips just for show?" and she immediately starts making out with me. After a little bit I stop the makeout. I allow her to lead me thru the crowd *Once again for social proof and I'm scanning around for AI*. We are dancing and talking. I tell her "You sem like a really cool girl but you don't have to believe me because I'm trying to get into your pants". She responds with a sexually curious "Really". I'm holding her hands and we make out. I pull away and tell her "This isn't fair what u are doing to me" (as I press her hand into my erection).

Immediately one her friends strolls over. The three of us talk for a second then I tell my girl "Hey my drink is empty. Come with me I'm getting another one". We get over to the bar and talk as the bartender is getting me a drink. I tell her we should hang out on sunday. Hand her my phone and write my number on a napkin. She hands me back my phone and doesn't help me out with the name recall. She had put her name in by her initials. I ask her a couple more questions and she starts rubbing my cock. At this point I'm thinking it's on when out of nowhere her 2 friends come over to steal her away. For me this is turned into do or die, how am I going to stall this. I open my mouth and ask the ringleader "Do u mind if her and I do a shot together first then you can have her?", she responds with something about her friend being a big gril and she's not her mother. She tells my HBsuburban that they are going to the bathroom and will be back down for her.

I'm like cool I bought my 5 mins max. I look my girl in the eyes and what comes out of my mouth was beautiful "It's too bad you have to leave I was going to take you on a romantic date to the bathroom. Where I was going to pull my dick out and masterbate for u", my girls eyes open very widely and I ask her "Would you like to watch?". She responds with a verbal maybe and a non-verbal frantic nodding up and down.

I grab her hand and lead her to the bathrooms where her friends are at. I look in the guys bathroom and there's a line. We talk to her friends for a second because they are waiting by the girls bathroom. I tell my girl come here and lead her downstairs and out of the club. As we are walking to my suburban she asks where my car is. We get to my parking garage and to my car. No words necessary I just open the backseat and let her in. We start making out and within minutes my dick is out and I'm getting head. I stop her and shift to the side. We continue making out and I slide my hands down her pants to finger her. I try to take them off but no go. I tell her it'll be better for her cause it's easier for my hand. Buttons undone. I try to slide them down with the premise of I want to go down on her. She allows me to slide them down but asks me why they have to come off. I tell her that they just do. Pants off and I try to go down on her but she wont let me. I slide her back, spread her legs and get in between them while I'm fingering her. I go for the old switcheroo but she stops me saying "but I don't have a condom" *passive acceptence for sex* so I stop completely and grab my bag that is in the back. Thank god I had a condom in there. I throw it on and she states that I probably do this alot. I ignore her statement and enter her. We fuck for abit and after I blow my load we walk back to the club. Inside we part ways, she goes to find her friends and I go to find mine.

Acting in accordance to your beliefs

2008-04-09T21:13:00.002-04:00

It's amazing how if you change the dynamic of your beliefs, how it will effect they way you interact with the world. I was thinking about this earier while I was working. I noticed if I shifted my beliefs about my job and changed my focus, how it would effect the level of how I would perform. Here's a good example of how this relates to pickup and life. If you have the belief that you are truely worthy of talking to and having beautiful women in your life, you will act accordingly and subcommunicate that. If you belief that you are not worthy then based on your subcommunications women will respond to you accordingly.

Doing things for yourself

2008-03-30T21:08:00.002-04:00

This is important in any action you take. If you are doing things for validation from other people or because you are worried what others think of you then you are coming at it the wrong way. Most people follow this path. They go to school for things and take jobs based on it making someone else proud (parents), don't risk talking to a girl because they are afraid that their friends won't find their choice attractive, etc. This is a joke, I know I've done it for so long in my life, it's a vicious cycle that makes you a puppet on strings. That's no way to live...in turmoil fighting against what would make you happy. This is your life, you came in this world alone and you're going to go out alone. Why not treat yourself as the most important thing in your life and do things to make yourself happy. I don't know about you but I don't want to be one of those people that looks back on his life when he's 60 and sits there reminiscing about things I wish I had taken risks on and had done differently.

Modeling

2008-03-27T19:55:00.002-04:00

I was just staring at the ceiling and I had this topic pop up in my head. I think this is absolutely key no matter what aspect of life you are engaging in. Be it pickup, work, exercise or whatever...it's good to have people that you strive for their level of success. I guess you can call it competing with where you are at v.s where you want to be. I believe it's healthy for everyone. Think about it, when you become complacent with where you are at then you become stagnant and no longer grow. What normally happens next is you start to slide down hill. Give me someone as competition, someone who has the success that I want...it'll force me to grow exponentially.

Moving

2008-03-27T00:52:00.003-04:00

I can't wait to move out of my place. I have a feeling that Denver is going to be amazing. A new environment, new adventure and explorations. I'm so excited for the experiences that will come during the next year. Everything happens for a reason and I believe that things are coming full circle. Moving to me is always like being reborn. It's kinda like hitting the reset button on the NES when I was a kid. My question for you is...if you moved somewhere where no one knew you, would you remain the same person or would you decide to change?

My Lists

2008-03-25T19:55:00.002-04:00

Sinn talks about having lists. One being 10 things to talk about, another being qualities you want in a woman and a third being characteristics you want women to know about you. I spent some time yesterday to come up with them.

10 things to talk about.

1. Moving to Denver. (what I'm excited about)
2. Capoeira and gymnastics
3. Traveling- costa rica and my 3 month road tip.
4. My sexual nature
5. Social interaction and dynamics.
6. Music
7. Dogs
8. Sexual Desires and dynamics
9. Scrubs and heroes (I love those shows)
10. My development/My life

10 qualities I want in women.

1. Humor (this is HUGE)
2. Charisma
3. Beauty (obviously)
4. Has to have a cool life-things going on for her
5. Can party but not an alchy, party girl
6. Sexual- presence & aggressiveness
7. Decisive (i don't need to feel like I'm acting as her daddy)
8. Caring/loving
9. Happy/full of life (I find this sexy)
10. Good hearted/loves animals

11 characteristics I want women to know about me

1. Caring
2. Outgoing
3. Sexually aggressive
4. Decisive- I go for what I want
5. Passionate
6. Charisma
7. Adventurous/risk taker
8. Great lover
9. Spontaneous- I live in the moment
10. Humerous
11. I'm awesome

Sinn and El topo's seminars

2008-03-23T21:54:00.002-04:00

I ended up going to everything. The lair talk and all three seminars. I saw a lot of value in everything. Normally I don't endorse products or anything but I have to say that I would have paid more for these. Both Sinn and el topo are really good at the way they present the material and they do their best to make sure you understand it.

For me this was a really sick weekend. The amount of mental stimulation that is going on with me is incredible. These seminars have popped up new ideas in my head for how I want to run my game and for other future situations I run across.

For anyone that that is hesitant about taking one of these I would say go for it. With my experience level I didn't know how much I would get from these but after sitting though them all I was fairly impressed. What course(s) is going to depend on the specific goals of the pua.

SNL- I learned some new stuff from this program but the big thing it did for me is that it solidified in my mind what I was already doing. For anyone not pulling and closing on a regular basis I would highly recommend this program.

Breakthough comfort- This program literally blew me away. The information that Sinn released in this left me with chills. As he was teaching this I was having epihanies pop up in my head. Ways I could use this and how I made girls fall for me in the past. Really powerful stuff.

Red stack- This is a massive tool for anyone that wants to be able to generate a highly dynamic interaction between yourself and women. Honestly if you are not getting the results you desire in set I would give this a shot.

Pua Gayness

2008-03-19T01:18:00.000-04:00

This post may offend some of you and if it does....good. I have been in the community for about a year and I have seen a trend that I think is really gay. There's a bunch of pua's that don't act, they don't escalate and they wonder why they never get anywhere. Listen guys if you don't take risks and don't lead the interaction then you are going to wind up going home to a 7-some involving you, your hand and a jar of vasoline. The blame isn't on your wing, isn't that you ran across a bunch of cockblocks or bitches. Ultimately it's on you to either make it happen or to not make it happen.

My Bio

2008-03-19T01:09:00.000-04:00

Some of you might already know who I am and some of you might not. I'm ratisse. I'm 25 and I've been in the community since march of 2007. Since joining the community I am at 102 lays for my lifetime. I came into this not trying to get laid but to improve the skillset I already had. I already had 44 lays already under my belt before I joined. I lost my virginity when I was 18.5 yrs old. During the next 6 yrs I spent three of them in relationships. I've had on multiple accounts "one-itis" for some random girl that I just met that was seeming to make my heart flutter because she seemed into me. Ultimately there are certain motivating factors that drive me to post FR's/LR's and even start this blog. One is I know where I was at back in the day, semi feeling of frustration and hopelessness, I know that that shit sucks. Two I love to help others and teach, it's something that brings me joy in life.